Logic Behind F Taboo

Ever think of, why men are more susceptible to committing adultery or having sexual intercourse with different partners. Why is it that women are more possessive (traditionally)? What is the reason behind men being more possessive these days? Why do couples want to have children?

The answers or the more likely reasons that I am about to put across to you are from a book which I read called “Aghora”. It discourses about the life and ideologies of the nude saints of India. Well strange as they may sound, let me tell you their ideologies seem very pragmatic.

The vagina of a woman is hollow, it is like an empty hole and the penis of a man resembles the pole that fits the hole. When a man and a woman are in love they want to cuddle each other, find ways to develop their intimacy as their relationship grows. They always feel like taking their relationship a step further. The same way a job gets boring if it is not challenging enough, so does a relationship if there are no ways for each other to vent out their love.

Initially, they start cuddling each other. When they want to take it a step further, they get into a sexual intercourse trying to become one. Even though they physically do not become one, yet they feel as one during the intercourse. It is this reason due to which the word couple is singular and not plural. So where does this cycle of expressing love end? It is a continuous process, the couple cuddles each other, has sexual intercourse. Then they have children, whom they cuddle, after that they have grand children whom they again cuddle and fondle.

A man has his penis which is always trying to fill up holes, while a woman has a hole waiting to be filled. If you will observe, it is the woman who accepts the penis or she is the one who accepts the man into herself. She is the one who lets the man in, trying to get themselves to be one. This is what probably makes the woman to be so possessive.

On the other hand the penis keeps searching for holes to be filled up. As a result the man tends to look for more than one partner to satisfy. But there is another question, why is man becoming more possessive these days?

The vagina can accept any penis irrespective of the size, whereas a penis is deprived of that boon. Thus, many a men feel that they might not be able to satisfy their woman adequately, which in turn might instigate them to look for another partner to satiate her thirst. Thus men have the tendency to become more possessive due to their sense of insecurity.

Well I have imparted to you, what I wanted to for today. Hope it was of some use to you.

Mystified

“I do not know if I hate or like what I am doing”. People always say that you should do whatever you like to do. That is quite a good suggestion. But what about those who do not quite know, what is it that they want to do. These are the ‘Mystifieds’. I think I can term myself as a mystified.

I do not know if I like the job that I am doing right now, I do not know whether I like to write, I do not know whether I like to watch movies or read books, whether I would like to party everyday or do I want to stay back home. I am clueless about the job profile that suits me best, where the employer will be able to utilize on my potential. I know that I have potential, it is just that I fail to realise where it is.

A lot of ideas seem to be quite interesting to me, but they all interest me to a certain point after which they all seem to wither away. How do you know, the thing that you like to do the most? Or is it that my mind starts deflecting towards various things at the same point of time. Is it that I should hold on to one thing and give it a shot.

It is said that, get a hold on your brain and you can achieve almost anything. It sounds a bit fascinating to me that the brain should ask itself to get a grip on it. Where do we exist as an individual or as the brain. If you read my last two writings, you will notice that they will indicate the amount of bewilderment that I am in currently.

This is exactly what I wanted to convey to you, “the amount of perplexity that I have at this stage in life”.

I am sorry if I have wasted your time, but this is what I felt at this point of time, and this is what I wanted to ink out.

The Plunge

“You ask me those many questions and I can never work!”. What a statement to welcome you in to your new work life. Back in college the teachers would say “What is wrong with you boy, do you not have the urge to learn. If you do not ask the right kind and amount of questions, you will never learn.”

That is where the difference comes in between your student life and your work life, going opposite ways. It might make you wonder, how is it that I always write about something this boring or on a topic that has been debated about for centuries. The answer to it is, I do not write to give you the conclusion of a new theory or a study, but I write to express my thoughts and convey it to those who might feel the same way as I do and are able to relate to.

I feel at this juncture where I have very recently entered the work environment to be most perplexing. As a student all you had to do was pursue your studies. At this stage, I feel confounded due to a lack of direction. It is here that I feel, I hardly know myself at all, or whether I should be taking up familial responsibilities or should I fulfil the desires that I wanted to but could not afford to.

Are all the rich (a.k.a successful) people happy with the colossal amount of money that they possess? If they have earned that kind of money, then it must have taken them a lot of hard work and consumed 80% of their time (leaving the rest of the 20% to be accounted for sleep). Are they happy with their lives? In my view they must be addicted to money, they might be petrified to take a vacation for the fear of a change in direction of the flow of money. Suppose even if they were to go on a vacation even for a day, will they be able to say “This is it, I am on vacation now and I shall not think about my work at all for this one day”. Will they be able to do that? I think not. The more the amount of money you earn, the more it demands your perpetual attention.

This is not where it ends. What about the people who do not have that kind of money, are they happy? They are not happy either; they have their own set of problems. There are many who have seen their near and dear ones pass away because they did not have the required amount of money for the necessary medication.

Where is the break-even point? Where is it that we humans remain happy? Do we feel satisfied with money or do we feel complete even without it. A lot of religions say that renounce it all and there you will find satisfaction. That does not seem to be a satisfactory rejoinder. To me that seems more like “If you cannot have it, give up on it”. There must be some other alternative where you can even out the odds.